“Regret for the things we did can be tempered by time; it is regret for the things we did not do that is inconsolable.” – Sydney Smith
I’ve told this story before but it still cracks me up. When my daughter was three-years- old, I asked her how many houses she could see when she looked out the ground floor window of our house, it was about three.
Then I took her up to the floor above and ask her how many she could see and it was about seven.
Finally we went out onto the little deck on our rooftop and I asked her how many she could see and it was more than she had numbers for. “Miss O” I said “this is the perspective that you get when you are older, you know that everything fits into a larger picture and you are able to see more of it.”
Miss O’s eyes got wide and she looked at me like I was a crazy lady. I admit, that lesson was a little before it’s time. But I love a good dose of perspective. It’s one of the reasons I enjoyed this latest How to Share podcast conversation with author and educator Andrea Simon about her wonderful book, Did You Live the Life You Wanted?
We talk about perspective, regret and the meaning of life. She tells us why she choose to write this story as a novel and how the course she taught about how to write about family plays into her writing.
There are so many fantastic female friendships and characters in this book that spans 50 years. Andrea talks about how she asked men and women if they lived the life they wanted and what she learned differs when women and men answer that question.
We talk about the meaning of life and how writing plays into that. Andrea’s incredible experience as an educator and facilitator shines through as we dig into the depth of life and how we share it.
This is a great episode full of perspective and wisdom with a thoughtful guest. I know you’ll love it.
Takeaways
- The novel spans 50 years, highlighting female friendships.
- Writing about family requires sensitivity and respect.
- Men and women often have different perspectives on life choices.
- Older women may feel they had fewer options in their careers.
- Regret can lead to personal growth and new opportunities.
- It’s important to pursue personal desires as we age.
Here’s Andrea’s fabulous elevator pitch for her novel Did You Have the Life You Wanted?:
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Links for this episode:
How to Share Perspective transcript
Did You Have the Life You Wanted? on Barnes & Noble, and Amazon
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