The Digital Version of Trust, But Verify

“Trust is built on telling the truth, not telling people what they want to hear.” – Simon Sinek

There is something that is bothering me about the Nancy Guthrie investigation. For anyone that hasn’t followed this, Nancy Guthrie is the 84-year-old mother of Today show host, Savannah Guthrie. Nancy was abducted from her home in Tucson, Arizona in the middle of the night on February 1st.

When she was first abducted, the news reported that no images were captured by her Nest doorbell camera because she opted out of the recording service.

Then sometime about 10 days later, some footage from the camera was “recovered.” I hope that provides some great investigative leads and helps to bring Nancy Guthrie home safely. But three things strike me as troublesome.

  1. That data was not supposed to exist. Users should be able to opt out of that service and be assured that recording is not happening.
  2. Nest is owned by Google. Their competitor, Ring, is owned by Amazon. Two companies that have spent billions on AI. [To be fair, Ring says that it doesn’t record if people opt out.]
  3. When the AI bubble bursts, will either Google or Amazon need a bail out from the government? And if so, what will they be willing to trade for that help?

I generally tend to believe that companies do the right thing for their customers. This is definitely the case with Microsoft. Not only because I have so many good friends who work there, but also because I’ve been helping companies implement MS software for more than 30 years.

I tell my clients not to transcribe or record sensitive meetings they hold online. Microsoft says they understand that clients should be able to choose what is and is not recorded.

Back in the day when software ran on machines that companies owned, we could check. Now that so much operates from “the cloud,” there isn’t any way to effectively do that.

Ronald Reagan used to quote the Russian proverb, “Trust, but verify.” We might need to start a movement to do just that.

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How to Share Insight

“We teach each other things. People take this for granted, but it’s actually unbelievable.” – Nicholas Christakis

Last weekend, my five-year-old son got two moon balls. They are cratered like the moon and bounce like they are going to leave this atmosphere. That bounce combined with my son’s determination to hit as if he’s aiming for the Green Monster at Fenway Park meant we lost both balls in pretty short order.

He was bummed when we lost the first… and really sad when we lost the second. I sat next to him on the steps and asked, “Do you want to know what I know about being sad.”

“No,” he replied.

It’s all about timing, isn’t it? 🙂 It is one of the keys about sharing insight that I talk with customer experience strategist Karl Baisch about on the How to Share Podcast.

Nicholas Christakis, sociologist from Yale, has this really hopeful view of humans based on our ability to interact and cooperate with others. He says, “We teach each other things. People take this for granted, but it’s actually unbelievable.”

In this episode of ‘How to Share’, Karl and I explore the nuances of how we teach each other things and share insights effectively. We discuss the importance of asking the right questions, the challenges of navigating data, and the significance of context in delivering actionable insights. Our conversation also touches on parenting and how to instill curiosity and critical thinking in children, drawing parallels between data synthesis and everyday experiences.

Here are some takeaways from our conversation:

  • We teach each other things.
  • Real change happens when there’s enough curiosity.
  • Groups have to want an answer to hear it.
  • You gotta share your work product somewhere.
  • You want to avoid analysis paralysis.
  • How do you synthesize it into a story?
  • Insights should breathe new energy and life into anything.
  • You have to contextualize it.
  • You have to ask the right questions.

This is a great episode about the practice of creating insight. Join us as we dig into the who, what, when, where, how and of creating and sharing a-ha moments!

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Melissa Arnot Reid on Enough: Why No Summit Can Prove Your Worth – The Life of Try: Personal growth, one try at a time.

What if the biggest summit is learning that you were alreadyenough?In this episode of The Life of Try, Wynne Leon sits down with renowned mountaineer, guide, and author Melissa Arnot Reid to discuss her memoir, Enough, and the inner journey behind an extraordinary climbing career. Melissa—who became the first American woman to summit Mount Everest and descend without supplemental oxygen—opens up about achievement,shame, belonging, vulnerability, and self-acceptance.Melissa shares how writing her memoir helped bring hiddenparts of her life into the light, why public success can mask private struggle, and why we cannot achieve our way into feeling worthy. She and Wynne explore “mountain goddess” leadership, mentoring with curiosity instead of judgment,balancing tenderness with firmness, and the courage to show up when life is painful or uncertain.This warm, honest conversation offers a powerful shift fromvalidation-seeking to values-driven living. It is for climbers, memoir readers, ambitious women, leaders, parents, and anyone working to replace perfectionism with self-compassion.Listen for an inspiring conversation about Mount Everest,personal growth, women in leadership, resilience, healing through writing, and the freedom of knowing that no summit can make you more worthy than you already are.Follow The Life of Try on Spotify, share this episodewith someone who needs it, and keep showing up, staying curious, and trying.
  1. Melissa Arnot Reid on Enough: Why No Summit Can Prove Your Worth
  2. Unleash Your Humanity: Courage, Resilience & Purpose with Yasmine Sherif
  3. Stop Hustling For Your Worth: A Better Way to Grow
  4. Way Will Open: How To Trust Life's Timing
  5. How to Stop Procrastinating and Start: The 10-Minute Rule for Taking Action

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