How to Share a Mission

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”There are only two lasting bequests we can give our children. One is roots, the other is wings.” – Hodding Carter

In the days when I watched tv (somewhere about a decade ago before I had kids and started going to bed early so I could wake up early enough to write in that hour before they wake up), I really enjoyed watching Dancing with the Stars. There is something fascinating about watching someone translate their skills from one arena to another. Like when a football player does a ballroom dance and it reveals something essential about what they bring no matter the format.

It reminds me of the guest I spoke with on the How to Share podcast this week. Anthony Dyer was special missions aviator for the US Air Force for 20 years. Now he’s written a gripping memoir, Moon Child: Roots and Wings of a USAF Combat Special Missions Aviator. In it you see his courage. First on the battlefield and then in his vulnerability in writing about it.

Anthony knows how to bring it. Here’s a short excerpt that gives a taste of his inspirational courage:

“In gambling, playing with house money means you’re ahead, taking risks with what you’ve already won. That’s exactly how I wanted to exist earthside: bold, fearless, and unburdened by the fear of losing. Life itself was the ultimate win, and I was determined to make the most of it. Living a ‘house money life’ means living with the mindset that you’re already ahead and willing to take the risks with what you’ve already achieved without fearing losing. It’s about embracing life’s uncertainties and challenges and making the most of every opportunity.” – Anthony Dyer, Moon Child: Roots and Wings of a USAF Combat Special Missions Aviator.

Anthony tells us how he went from a childhood in Appalachia to becoming a special missions aviator for the US Air Force. We talk about how his desire to make a difference in the world led to a 20-year-career in the military.

He reveals how he healed from the visible and invisible wounds of war, healing by picking up a pen instead of a bottle. He tells us how he met his wife and what their mission is now.

Anthony has so many incredible insights about how to live fully, heal, and integrate traumatic experiences. He tells us what motto is inspiring him today. This is a great episode with an insightful author who takes life by the horns. I know you’ll love it.

Takeaways

  • Anthony chose writing over alcohol to heal from trauma.
  • The importance of aviate, navigate, communicate in life.
  • Healing can come from vulnerability and sharing stories.
  • Family plays a crucial role in personal healing.
  • God can help you rebuild after trauma.
  • Scars are badges of honor, representing resilience.
  • Conversations with God can lead to personal growth.
  • Fatherhood is Anthony’s most important mission now.
  • Roots and wings symbolize balance in life.

Here’s a great clip of Anthony talking about how writing has helped heal the wounds of war:

Here are some ways you can watch or listen to all of this fascinating and inspiring episode:

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What Do You Know To Be True? – How To Share

This episode is different – because Wynne Leonis a guest on the What Do You Know To Be True? podcast with the brilliant host and producer, Roger Kastner. What Do You Know To Be True? features conversationsat the intersection of leadership, neuroscience, belonging, and personal growth—inviting guests to explore the truths that shape how they lead and live.Roger is a master at getting his guests to reveal theirsuperpower. Watching this episode reminded me how skillful Roger is at digging into the heart of what I know to be true. In my case, my superpower is trying. In this conversation,Roger and I talk about:How Wynne's electrical engineering background helped develop her superpowerWhy trying is different than persistenceHow mountain climbing helped shape and shift Wynne's ability to tryWhat her system is for creating order when tryingHow trying helps keep us from being stuckHow documenting what we've tried helps us to pass on the learning to othersSo, please go to What Do You Know to Be True and listen tothis episode. And subscribe – because Roger has so many fantastic conversations that helps us dig into our superpowers, share them – and thrive!Links for this episode:How to Share homeWhat Do You Know To Be True? websiteWhat Do You Know to Be True? on YouTubeRoger Kastner on LinkedIn
  1. What Do You Know To Be True?
  2. How to Share a Return Home with Mario Cartaya
  3. How to Share a Mission with Anthony Dyer
  4. How to Share Your Superpower with Roger Kastner
  5. How to Share Perspective with Andrea Simon

Links for this episode:

How to Share a Mission Transcript

Moon Child: Roots and Wings of a USAF Combat Special Missions Aviator on Barnes and Noble and Amazon

From the host:

My book about my beloved father: Finding My Father’s Faith

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48 thoughts on “How to Share a Mission”

  1. Excellent, Wynne, and an inspiration of how we can get to the essence of our missions. Kudos to Anthony for sharing his journey!

    Decades ago, as a junior leader in a large corporation, my mission emerged when the corporate trainer asked, “What do you want written on your tombstone?” I came up with this epitaph. ‘He cared enough to build leaders of leaders.’ My goal was to have each leader replicate themselves, and like the tide raises all boats, employee attitudes and productivity would rise with the use of positive leadership skills and practices.

    Now in retirement, here’s my updated mission. ‘Share with novice authors how to write a book readers will love.’ My goal today is to help authors positively shape the lives of young and old through fiction.

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  3. I find it fascinating how some people can go through great difficulties, and decide they want to make a difference in the world. Not everyone chooses, as Anthony did, to heal, to rebuild, to make better. I’m so glad you shared his inspirational courage Wynne.

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  4. I’m really looking forward to this one! We have many friends who are former special forces and, like Anthony, they emanate a deep awareness of what truly matters in life. I’m already feeling inspired just by what I’ve read here!

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  14. What a cool guy! Anthony is 100% authentic. I loved learning about aviation in general and the Henry Ford quote about “an airplane always taking off against the wind instead of with it “and applying that to life. I love that he sought help and ultimately chose writing and his family life over drinking and that he has a mission to help others; which, in turn helps himself. His call name may have been Uncle Tito, but his favorite is dad. He’s amazing, Wynne. I truly enjoyed this. Thank you.

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    1. As always, you name my favorites, Melanie! Yes – taking off into the wind. I never knew that! You are so good at seeing in the heart of others and you are right, Anthony is 100% authentic. Thanks for tuning in, my friend!

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  19. I so enjoyed this conversation, as I drove on a dreary drive to the dentist this morning.

    Trauma is such an interesting and deep subject and to discuss it from the context of recovery from 20 years of service is so compelling. I’m glad that despite the detour to alcohol, he found his way and rooted himself in fatherhood and faith.

    Love the rich metaphor of wings and flying and the phrase “isolation before salvation” and “God rebuilt me in front of what broke me” – wow, so so rich and good.

    Sounds like his new mission in life is one so worthwhile and a deeply rewarding one coming from his past.

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    1. I love hearing your thoughts, Ab. They remind me of what I liked so much about Anthony, his book and this episode. The phrase isolation before salvation — right! And the taking off into the wind. Isn’t that fascinating?

      I hope your dentistry was not too painful! Sending you great wishes for a fabulous weekend!

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