“Nutrition requires nuance—it’s personal.” – Meg Bowman
I’ve spent a good portion of my career helping people organize data in a way so that it is informative. For example, saving a file to a misnamed or wrong location makes the content practically useless. So much of passing on wisdom and goodness requires it to be in context to be helpful.
I’m thinking of context and the bigger picture because of the How to Share podcast episode this week. Vicki Atkinson and I were fortunate enough to talk with licensed nutritionist and author, Meg Bowman. Meg’s newly released book, This is Your Body on Trauma, is incredible because in it she maps out how nutrition is interconnected with our other systems. Meg explains why safety is the most important nutrient for our nervous systems.
She also explains why how you eat is as important as what you eat. She encourages us to understand that we need two strategies at play. One is the toolkit we build for when we are underwater and the second is for when we are feeling safe.
Meg tells us about how to meet our bodies with more care and less judgment. We talk about how this extends to others, especially in the food season we are in with the holidays ahead.
This is a fantastic conversation about a topic that affects us all. As Meg says, when we are well-nourished, it lessens our experience of stress at any age. This is an episode that will leave you feeling satisfied. We know you’ll love it!
Takeaways
- Safety is the most important nutrient for the nervous system.
- How you eat is as important as what you eat.
- Understanding your nervous system state can influence food choices.
- Food is often a reflection of deeper needs for safety and stability.
- Nutrition requires a personal and nuanced approach.
- Creating a safe eating environment can enhance well-being.
- The FIGS protocol helps assess individual nutritional needs.
- Storytelling and emotional state impact our relationship with food.
- Removing shame from food choices is crucial for healing.
- Self-care should focus on centering individual needs.
Here’s Meg’s compelling elevator pitch for This Is Your Body on Trauma:
Here are some ways you can watch this fascinating and informative episode:
- The podcast player embedded below
- Click this link to watch in a browser: How to Share Nutrition and Safety with Meg Bowman
- Subscribe to How To Share on Spotify, Amazon Music, or Apple Podcasts
- Subscribing to the YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@howtosharepodcast
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Links for this episode:
How to Share Nutrition and Safety transcript
This Is Your Body on Trauma — Meg Bowman
This Is Your Body on Trauma | Book by Meg Bowman | Official Publisher Page | Simon & Schuster
This Is Your Body on Trauma on Barnes & Noble and Amazon
From the Hosts:
Vicki’s book about resilience and love: Surviving Sue; Blog: https://victoriaponders.com/
My book about my beloved father: Finding My Father’s Faith
(featured photo from Pexels)
Such a privilege to listen and learn from Meg! Wishing her great success with her very important and timely book! ❤️
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Important and timely – perfectly said, Vicki!
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This looks very interesting!
Thank you for sharing Wynne
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Interesting is such a good word for it! Thanks, Maggie!
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Thank you for the post Wynne.
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Thank you Wynne and Vicki for this very insightful conversation with Meg. It is so timely for me as we just set up a checkin with a nutritionist to discuss how we can motivate T as he is such a selective eater and as you know, his disability itself is a form of lifelong trauma.
So interesting and helpful to hear Meg’s comments around the role nutrition plays in our wellbeing and how resilient we are to face stress. And to be kind with ourselves to remove the shame in food. A good example for us is that research has shown that certain food dyes in processed foods exacerbate disregulation for kids with T’s diagnosis.
The concept of food as safety – and story as state – is also an interesting one to think about – and how the brain and nervous system sets the tone with food, life and community.
Wishing you both a good Thanksgiving and holiday ahead – as healthy nutrition will become even more timely and important. We’re in it to win it, indeed!
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As always, Ab, you have such wonderful and interesting feedback. Thank you for your incredible deep listening. I was thinking about Meg’s lens in my approach to feeding my kids. Miss O is a selective eater as well and we’re about to go into those teen years. Keeping it safe whether we are in Trauma or trauma seems so important!
Thanks for tuning in and the great comment! Hope you all have a great Halloween!
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Happy Halloween to you both too. I’m so glad it’s on a Friday (and potential World Series ending game!)!
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* you three, I mean, plus the pets!
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Thank you, Wynne, Vicki and Meg, this podcast contains much needed health information for living the good life! Our emotional and mental state are reflections of our internal ecosystem!
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Reflections of our internal ecosystem – such a great way to put it, Mary! Yes – thanks for tuning in!
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The the extent that food is connected to safety, I wonder if one can address the food issue without also addressing the world as it is, with a large, terrified population without means to buy good food (or any) food, without nutritional instruction in school, who are facing a loss of SNAP, food deserts, possible loss of medical insurance, and an economy that seems to having trouble, as well.
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A really good point, Dr. Stein. Certainly as we build the toolkits for times of stress, Meg’s book helps to understand our approach better and be more prepared.
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Sounds like a very interesting talk. I’ll be listening later.
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Thanks for tuning in, Brad!
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It was a good talk, full of helpful tips. I agree with Meg’s approach and try to live with acceptance (the how) as more important than the what for eating and living. In fact, I stopped trying to fix or improve myself about 10 years ago, switching to accepting myself as the highest goal.
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What an insightful comment. I love how you’ve made acceptance a lifestyle priority. It’s hard work! Thanks for tuning in, Brad!
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“Safety is the most important nutrient for our nervous systems.” Wow, that’s something I’ll need to chew on. I’m looking forward to listening and learning more.
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It’s a thought-provoking perspective for sure! Hope you enjoy the episode, Erin!
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Very interesting. My daughter suffered from an eating disorder and when she wouldn’t eat her stress would sky-rocket. It sounds like Meg has very good advice.
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That’s such a powerful example, Elizabeth. I was thinking of Meg’s advice as Miss O heads towards the teen years. I love having her perspective to channel!
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Great subject, Wynne! I think the older I get the more I have realized the important role of good food choices.
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Me too, Dana! I think food impacts me more noticeably too.
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Well, Meg’s comment about diabetics often having lived through childhood trauma made me sit up straight, as I am indeed a type 2 diabetic. Wow. It helps me and others to make that connection between your body and how it functions in different states and eating. Completely fascinating, amd Meg’s sincerity and mastery of the subject shines through. Thanks so much for this conversation, Wynne and Vicki.
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I think it’s fascinating too because I hadn’t made that connection either. Thanks for listening, for the great example, and for the comment, Melanie!
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Nutrition and health is something I’m really interested in so this sounds like an episode that will resonate.
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Oh, I think you’ll love it then, Pooja! Thanks for the comment!
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You’re so welcome!
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I cannot wait to listen to this episode, we know that we carry trauma within our bodies and the food we put in them, is a part of making this better or worse. what a perfect time to be discussing this with food being such an insecurity issue for so many right now
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You make such a great point about timing, Beth. You’re right about the big picture – the more we understand, the better we can do. Bring on the soup!
Thanks for tuning in!
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This is another fantastic interview! In our trauma flooded society, this makes perfect sense: “Safety is the most important nutrient for the nervous system.”
Also, thank you so much for the takeaways and the link to the transcript. I don’t always get the important points from videos; I understand things better in written form.
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Oh, it’s so helpful to know that those are helpful to you, Rose. Thank you for telling me — and for connecting with the content! I appreciate you!
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thanks Wynne; i take care to build a balance in my diet ; and to enjoy what I eat; veggies, fibre, little alcohol, fruit —-
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All the food groups – sounds like you’ve got it nailed, John!
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on my veggie days I have a half glass of red: to help the medicine go down 🙂
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Well-earned!
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“Safety is the most important nutrient for the nervous system.” – This one stuck with me too, Wynne. I think it is 100% correct, and to be honest I never confronted that fact until now. Very interesting guest and ep.
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I hadn’t either so I’m glad to know I’m in good company, Bruce! Thanks for tuning in!
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I’m listening right now. It’s so good!
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I love hearing this, Edward! I agree — it was the episode that I didn’t even know I needed! Thanks for tuning in, my friend!
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Yes, the safety part of the conversation was something I had never heard before, but it makes so much sense. I think nutritionists should be talking more about that aspect.
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I completely agree!
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Lots of great reminders in this episode!
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Right! Thanks, Todd!
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Very interesting, particularly the how you eat part. During the introduction I assumed this meant something along the lines of fork vs. spoon (or spork if you’re a Renaissance guy like me), but I see it’s so much more than that. Timely, with the holiday food glut approaching!
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Or spork — that’s a classic, Mark!! Right – very timely! Thanks for the great comment, Mark!
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I appreciate this post particularly your first paragraph about organizing. The advice I often give students is 1) create a folder for each academic year. 2) Please label your assignments appropriately, for example “Course Name. Title of assignment. Date” the older you will thank you. During my academic years I often labeled assignments “due x date” Yes, helpful in the moment, but not in the long run because one subject often ties in with another which will eventually leave one wasting time hunting down that information and data.
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What great advice for your students. It really does matter — and establishing those habits for young people. You are a treasure, MSW!
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I plan to listen – great topic – and I am curious about Figs protocol – V
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Oh, thanks for tuning in, Vickie! It’s such an interesting episode!
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I like to be educated about nutrition, too. What we eat affects our overall well-being; hence, it’s so important to observe and choose what’s best. This is a wonderful topic, Wynne.
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Such a great comment. Thank you, Hazel!
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My pleasure, Wynne. Happy Tuesday!
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Okay, this is fascinating. What an intriguing and wholly unique (at least to me) perspective. I’m glad you’ve made this book and author more accessible to the rest of us. 🙂
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I think you are right – a very unique perspective. But one that makes so much sense!! Thank you for tuning in, my friend!
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It does make sense. It’s one of those things that you sort of know but don’t realize you know it until someone says it. Then it clicks like, “Oh yeah…”
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