“Every sunrise is a blessing, it’s an opportunity to learn something new and to create something that can benefit others. It also gives a chance to make amends. Use it wisely before sunset.” – Eugenia Herlihy
Have you ever seen that math exercise where two people stand something like 20 feet apart? And with each move, they divide the distance between them in half so after the second move, they are 10 feet apart and after the third, five feet.
In the end, the point is that there is an endless number of moves because they’ll always be some distance, even if infinitesimal, between them.
There is no finish line.
It reminds me how I feel about my self-improvement. There’s always room for growth.
Three recent things have inspired me to keep feeding a growth mindset. When Vicki and I talked with author Andrew Mayne, he described the year when he wanted to become an author. He set a goal to write ten books in a year. He’d write a book and then read a book on writing. I’ve been intrigued by the “feedback loop” as Andrew described it, even since that conversation.
Elizabeth from the Bleuwater blog took a photography course this Spring. As she shared her lessons on speed, aperture, focus, I realized how much I don’t know about photography, especially when I just grab a picture with my phone. You can see Elizabeth’s incredible photography that she submitted as her final here.
Vicki Atkinson wrote a fascinating post about editing last week, Learning to Rewrite. The conclusion that grabbed me? “Pack a punch with fewer words. Make every sentence count.”
The math exercise reminds me that we will never completely occupy the space of another person on this planet. These recent posts and conversations remind me that there are never ending ways to inspire each other and improve. Taken all together, it makes me feel so motivated and hopeful…and never bored.
(featured photo from Pexels)
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My other projects include work as a CEO (Chief Encouragement Officer), speaking about collaboration and AI through the Chicago Writer’s Association, and my book about my journey to find what fueled my dad’s indelible spark and twinkle can be found on Amazon: Finding My Father’s Faith.
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I think it’s a great way to think about it and it’s looking at it realistically and putting it all in perspective. I’ve learned over time that life is a series of baby steps taken over time, hopefully in the right direction and that is enough and what I now strive for.
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Baby steps over time — exactly!
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I like the idea that every word should count. I do tend to waffle, but cut it down when I read it through.
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Oh, I do the same, Pat! I took out two paragraphs reading this one back. 🙂
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I’ve never heard of this exercise, but I get the meaning it conveys. Little by little, things change. For the better for all involved, I hope.
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For the better — I hope too! Thanks, Ally!
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You’re right that there’s always room for growth, Wynne. I hope I never reach a point where I think I have all the answers. Because there are so many more questions…
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You are so good at a growth mindset, Michelle! So many more questions. Exactly!
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Your list of examples for continuing learning is wonderful. And I love your last words “… and never bored.” I often hear people say how bored they are. Puzzling to me as I don’t know if I’ve ever been bored, or if I have it was for a very brief moment. There’s always so much more to learn, to do, to explore, there is no finish line in a life of discovery.
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Oh, I love your “never bored” attitude, Rose. I have moments where I’m unsettled on where to go next. You are so right there’s always so much more to learn and do!
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I love how you synthesize messages and reel them in, Wynne, to double and triple the meaning and inspiration. So good – and thank you for loving my latest ramble about ‘economy of words’. LOL. 🥰
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Ah, thank you, Vicki! ❤
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I agree Wynne.
We learn from each other and there is always more to learn.
As long as we are brave enough to try.
Have a great week !
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Brave enough to try – exactly right, Maggie!
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Every day is an opportunity! I love this thought. Back when I struggled with depression, that thought felt oppressive and didn’t feel uplifting, because I was, well, depressed. Learning that I could work on myself incrementally to help change my life opened the door to seeing possibilities instead of feeling overwhelmed with guilt that I wasn’t up to it. Growth can be very meaningful if approached incrementally; it’s far easier to do a little baby step.
I’ve written 2+ books and can’t imagine getting one per month accomplished! That seems very daunting to me, though I admire his fortitude, for extended writing is tiring for we pour so much of ourselves into it.
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Ah, such a good point about a different feeling when depressed. I can see how it wouldn’t be uplifting in that case!
But I’m all with you on little baby steps! You’re right that Andrew’s goal was daunting – fortitude is a good word for it!
Happy Monday, Tamara!
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Thanks Wynne! I wonder how Andrew felt after the year was done!
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Ten books a year?! What a goal. I’m more like one book every ten years.
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I know – that’s interesting, isn’t it? I think his point was just to practice and some of them were novellas. And he wasn’t working a different job at the time either. It’s not an approach for everyone (like me) but it made me think about the feedback loop at least!
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There are indeed innumerable ways to improve and all of them start with “I wonder if…” I think it’s comforting knowing there is always room for improvement because that means there’s always room for growth and when you stop growing you stop being. But then that might be just me.
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I’m totally with you, Michael! Never stop growing! 🙂
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“There’s always room for growth.” I love that mantra. It really is true. As a kid, I looked at learning as a finite point . . . I vaguely remember thinking doctors were crazy because of how much school they needed. I’m so grateful that I learned how small minded that really was. Learning and growing are good things.
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That’s so funny because I thought the same thing when I was younger – like we’d be “done” after 12 years of education + 4 years college. Never ends!
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It’s one of the best and most freeing lessons in life – to learn that there’s always room for growth and improvement. 🙏 I’ve never seen the math lesson you mentioned before and I love the visual that it creates about all the possibilities. I say this as the hubby is trying to finish homework with T besides me. Always room for improvement. 😂
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Always room for improvement – exactly! 🙂
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The beauty of learning is there is no finish line.
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Exactly!! Thanks, Pete!
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Perhaps in self-improvement it helps to realize that perfection is unattainable. Einstein never knew it all, the best athlete misses shots.
The goal perhaps should always to be learning and like Michael Jordan – be willing to take another shot accepting that not every shot is a winner.
Expectations can ruin our daily walk or journey as it can blind us to the adventures of serendipitous discovery.
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I love your phrase, “adventures of serendipitous discovery!” That’s so good, David!
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“There is no finish line.” Yes!! Wonderful message.
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Right! Thanks, Susan!
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I love the outlook of always having room to grow. I always think of that math problem in terms of football because some penalties are “half the distance to the goal line“. So in theory, you can keep committing the same penalty over and over and the opposing team will only be awarded a microscopic amount of yardage. This year in the NFC championship game against the Eagles, one of the Washington players was apparently trying to test this theory. The Eagles were within 1 yard of the goal line and he kept committing the same penalty on 3 or 4 consecutive plays. I was interested to see how far this will go, but the referee was not as amused. He told Washington to knock it off or he would just award the Eagles a touchdown. 😂
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That’s a hilarious sports story, Todd! What a funny way to test the theory!
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My preschool class got tired of hearing me say, “There’s always something new to learn!” And, there is. I love the Eugenia Herlihy quote. ,
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Oh, but you are so right, Gwen! Always something to learn! Thanks, my friend!
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Wynne, your last paragraph is really making me think. I have been considering whether or not to continue my blog and this is encouraging me to be mindful of all the aspects. Thank you!
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Ah, you describe such a natural crossroads, Dana! Mindful of all the aspects sounds like a good way to proceed. Best wishes!
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Such an inspiring share Wynne, truly wonderful to know about your projects, wish you the best success dear ♥️
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What a lovely comment. Thank you, Suma!
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Personal growth is important and accepting ourselves where we are is as well. Lessons I work on internalizing. : )
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Such a good point about accepting where we are as well. Right!
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It’s too easy to be too demanding of ourselves, expecting unattainable perfection.
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“ten books in a year” Makes my head spin just thinking about that. 💫
Never bored, no. Too many things to learn and enjoy for that to happen. When I was in middle school my English teacher said, “Only boring people get bored.”
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Your English teacher was spot on! I love how you are always learning and enjoying!
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She was and her message stuck! Thank you and you, too. 😊
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You’re right–it’s a positive thing that we never “arrive.” We can always progress farther up and farther in, as C. S. Lewis wrote. And along with the progress comes the joy of discovery and satisfying improvement!
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Farther up and farther in — that’s so good, Nancy!!
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what a wonderful quote: I’m writing this one down ; thanks Wynne 🙂
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It’s a good way to think of a day!
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Learning is never-ending regardless of age. Love the quote, and what a great post, Wynne, that inspires me to persevere through tech glitches that have me screaming. Well, not literally, but maybe silently. 😲 I also love Andrew’s method, but 10 books in 1 year. Wow! That alone has my head spinning like Linda Blair! 😂 Thank you for always motivating your readers! ❤️
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Ah, but you are so good at constantly pushing the envelope and continually publishing! I’m so sorry about the tech glitches!
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“There is always room for growth.” True. One never stops learning and discovering.
Excellent post, Wynne.
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Aren’t we lucky we can keep learning? Thanks, Chaya!
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Thank you for writing such inspiring and thought provoking posts, dear Wynne.❤️❤️
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Oh, I cherish this comment. Thank you, Chaya! ❤
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I haven’t actually heard of this math experiment – food for thought. You are always leaving us with something to ponder.
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Thank you for this kind comment, VJ!
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Your conclusion that there are never ending ways to inspire each other and improve is so true ! And you are very inspiring Wynne!
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And you are inspiring too, Cristiana! Thank you!
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We sometimes put pressure on ourselves to have all the answers don’t we Wynne. Your post has brought in to context for me the delicious fruits to be gained from one another and how we link in to the experiences of others.
I hadn’t come across the Math experiment either. Thanks Wynne 😊
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You said it perfectly, Margaret! I love how you say “delicious fruits to be gained from one another.” So good! Thank you!
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“…there are never-ending ways to inspire each other and improve.”
So true. Thank you, Wynne, for inspiring. ❤️
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