“If you were waiting for a sign, this is it.” – unknown
I would never describe my father as a mystic. He was a Presbyterian pastor through and through. His theology and rituals were aligned with the institutions he served.
But my mom told me a funny story about when he decided to retire. She reports that he came home and said, “I’ve decided to retire because the clock stopped working and the stapler ran out.”
Isn’t it interesting how we interpret the signs in our life? Something happens and it resonates with what we’ve been thinking, feeling, or intuiting. And often, speaking for myself, that resonation can have great power to shift what previously seemed immoveable.
Three things I need to align with the signs in life: quiet, curiosity about new ideas and ventures, and awareness of the world around me. I’m quite sure I’ve never seen a sign when my head is down, the blinders are on, and I’m marching towards a deadline. Or maybe I have, and just failed to take it in. Maybe mystics are simply the people who open to possibility more often than not.
One of my favorite signs comes from when I was in my late 20’s. I was driving to work on a sunny Spring morning with the top down on my little VW Cabrio convertible. I’d just broken up with a boyfriend and was wondering what to do next. I took the exit for I-90 bridge over Lake Washington and as the traffic slowed, Mt. Rainier loomed over the view. I thought, “I should climb that.” It launched my amateur climbing pursuits that took me throughout the Pacific Northwest as well as Russia, Nepal, Peru, and Mexico.
Every time I see Mt. Rainier, especially from the freeway, I’m reminded of the power of signs. I get a powerful goose to put the top down, whatever my proverbial top is at the moment, and look around.
From the Tao Te Ching,: “When the student is ready the teacher will appear.” To put it more clearly, as I see it, the teacher is always near, if only we are ready to see him.
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That’s the conclusion I’ve come to after some reflection and observation. We can only handle s much information in our day to day bandwidth, so we filter everything else out that we don’t feel we immediately need. When we’re ready, then we see what has been before us.
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I love how you put it in terms of bandwidth, Tamara! Yes!
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I agree about the teacher always being near – just that darn readiness that needs to line up! Thanks, Dr. Stein!
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A mountain is as big of a sign as you’re going to get from the universe, Wynne! 😆 What a story and what a pivotal moment in your life. So many inspiring stories have come out of that.
I too take note of these signs in life, often times a subtle wink, nod or nudge towards a direction or a reinforcement or affirmation that things will be ok. Whether or not we infer things we want to see or they are truly signs, is part of the fun! 😊🙏
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I’m giggling about, “A mountain is as big of a sign as you’re going to get from the universe, Wynne! ” Excellent point. Who knows how many smaller things the Universe showed me before I got it! 🙂
And I love you wink, nod and nudge. Yes all part of the fun! 🙂 ❤
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”I should climb that” is a good motto to follow in life, Wynne. It needn’t always (or ever!) be a mountain we’re climbing, but a positive goal that stretches us in some way.
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A good motto — excellent point, Jane! Yes!
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I love signs and they’ve led me many times
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Love this! Yes!
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I love how the Universe and our soul speaks to us using signs, symbols, and synchronicities. I believe that the more we begin to see and trust them, the more we receive.
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I believe the same. I think the signs and synchronicities are there, but too often we dismiss them instead of embracing them.
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Yes, yes, yes! I think so too, Tamara!
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A brilliant and wise comment, Susan. Yes, I agree that we receive more when open!
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I love both the mountain and clock/stapler signs. Stuff like this is so cool 😎 and so is the fact that you both followed the signs to new adventures.
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Oh, thanks, Todd. Maybe you retired when the metronome stopped keeping time? 🙂 I totally agree with you – these are cool!
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Haha that would have been a better story! I just retired when my patience wore out 😁
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Oh, I love this story, Wynne! Both your father’s sign to retire, and your sign to begin a new adventure.
I’ve encountered many such signs in my life–reminder that I’m being guided, nudges to do something, and trepidation that I would later learn saved my life.
As Dr. Stein and Tamara share, I also believe the meaning and invitations appear when we’re ready to see them. All we need to do is keep our eyes open.
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Nudges and trepidation – such a good point, Erin! Right – it’s not always a sign to do stuff but also to not do stuff or stop too! Hope you have a great week!
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Oh I love this post and the signs.. your fathers was great and your listening has opened up so much internal and external terrain which is a breath of fresh air, Wynne. Great message💕
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“internal and external terrain” – that’s so good Cindy! Yes these signs are amazing! Kinda like our recent email conversation!
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Glad you liked that Wynne and yes, exactly like that which I soooo loved💕
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You brought back so many memories of beautiful Mt. Rainier spotted while I was driving. It’s so breathtaking.
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So breathtaking!! Yes!
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Yup that’s it, I’m retiring today. My stapler ran out of staples. I tried to log on this morning and my laptop had to reboot. I called a coworker and instead of the call going through, it just continued to spin. All signs right Wynne. Wahhhhoooo. I’m a big believer now in mysticism. I can’t wait to retire now. Ha, ha.
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Oh geez – you should retire! Invite me to the party, please! Of course if I retired every time a laptop rebooted in my career, I wouldn’t have gotten out of the starting blocks. 🙂
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I hadn’t heard the story about the stapler…that really got my attention. 😜Your mom continues to amaze me…and your ability to weave poignant stories that make me stop, consider, mull? So good. And “mysticism” is the just-right word you used recently to help me see something I was missing. xo to you! 💕
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You are right with my mom’s stories. Such a treasure to have her abilities at hand. Thanks, my dear friend!
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🥰❤️🥰
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I think you’re right in saying that we miss seeing signs when we’re too absorbed in tasks at hand and deadlines. This is an Achilles heel issue with me.
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I love that you call it an Achilles heel issue, Linda. Yes, for me too!
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Oh my goodness Wynne, oh the signs of the times of our lives! Love this reflection:
“Three things I need to align with the signs in life: quiet, curiosity about new ideas and ventures, and awareness of the world around me.” 🙏🏼
That mountain in the distance will stop me in my tracks if I were there. So majestic for sure! 💖 That was a sign to make one stop and simply be still. Thanks for sharing this special moment my friend. 🗻🌄🗻
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Oh, I love your point about stopping to simply be still. Yes!! Thank you for your kind words — and all your writing which is like a sign magnifying service. Beautiful, Kym!
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Oh my Wynne, not the sign magnifying service? 😜 My dear friend your words drizzle like honey from a honeycomb! 🍯🍯🍯 Much love! 😍💖🥰
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What a great reminder to hold on to our awareness Wynne, even when we are busy and may have those blinders on. Noticing the sign is important and equally important is doing something about it. Just as you did with the mountain. How inspiring you are.
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I love how you put it, Alegria! “to hold on to our awareness.” Oh, that’s so good! As you’ve shown so well with your beautiful videos, when we do, we are richly rewarded!
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Signs are everywhere and we see them when we’re ready. Here’s to being open more than not. ❤️
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“Here’s to being open more than not.” That’s so good, Natalie!! Cheers to that!
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I love your Dad’s story about how he decided to retire. Clocks and staplers can’t be wrong! 😂
I think we often miss the signs because we’re running through our lives on autopilot. Another reason to slow down and pay attention!
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autopilot — yes, so well said. We forget to check for direction because we are traveling on the freeway. So good, Michelle!
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Great story, Wynne!
“I should climb that,” is the kind of thought that people have from time to time, but how many people actually act on it. We’ve just got to act on those signs when we see them.
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Oh, you are so right, Pete! We’ve got to act!! Such a good reminder that without that last step, it doesn’t matter if we notice the signs! Thank you!
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Great thoughts, Wynne. I call them triggers because “the thing,” whatever that may be, will motivate me to take action or remind me of a past action.
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Oh, triggers – that’s a good one. And maybe sparks as well. You make such a great point about them being motivators! Thanks, Edward!
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Sparks motivation and ideas…I like that.
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How beautiful to have a potent symbol for you in Mt. Rainier. The heights we will climb 🙂
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The heights we will climb! I love it, Rebecca! Yes!
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I admire your spirit of adventure. The only sign I ever got from seeing Mount Rainier was that I should eat a snowcone.
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As long as that snowcone isn’t yellow… 🙂
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Eww!
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“Everything is energy and that’s all there is to it. Match the frequency of the reality you want and you cannot help but get that reality. It can be no other way. This is not philosophy. This is physics.” – Albert Einstein
Thank you for sharing your signs and your story. Have a great day!
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Oh, what a great quote!! I’d never heard that one. Thank you for the fantastic comment.
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Having read your book, I love how this snippet gives me another glimpse into his heart. I 100% believe God does sprinkle signs/serendipitous circumstances in my life. It’s all about balance… you can quickly find yourself in the ditch of life, if you put too much stock in them, if they’re not balanced by peace, wisdom, etc. yet at the same time, they can add so much enjoyment, Difference between watching a movie in black and white, or in color.
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Such a great comment about black/white versus color. Yes! You are right that they need to be balanced. Such a wise addition, my friend! Thank you!
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Thank you. ❤️This post was definitely a sign for me. I’ve been stuck in a rut, feeling in the dumps. I’m ready to find a way out of my dungeon of despair and get back to my usual self.
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Glad this was a sign, Rose! Sending a dose of positive ju-ju your way!
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My thought is that observant people who are in tune with their own selves, become what other people call mystics. I’m told I’m fey but I suspect it’s just that I’m paying attention to what I need and how I can help others.
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Oh, I think you are exactly right, Ally! It seems like a simple formula — but not one that many can follow. What a gift!
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Wynne, your thoughts on signs and synchronicity really resonate with my Burning Man experiences. There’s just something about the vast desert landscape and community spirit that seems to amplify the mystical energy – it’s like the playa is constantly sending us little winks and nudges, if we quiet down enough to tune in.
In my recent post [‘Beyond the Flames’](https://exaltedarticlesbykathleen.wordpress.com/2024/11/04/beyond-the-flames-a-journey-through-the-surreal-experience-of-burning-man-festival/), I talk about how I’ve lost count of the times I’ve felt this divine guidance on the playa – stumbling upon transformative art or conversations that were exactly what I needed in that moment. There’s just this palpable sense that the Burner community is constantly exchanging these energetic signals, if we have the presence to pick up on them.
I’d really encourage anyone curious about tapping into that mystical current to check out my post. The desert is such a crucible for the soul, offering an escape from default reality and a chance to reconnect with our truest selves. Let me know what you think – I’d love to hear your take on the parallels!
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