Growing and Blooming

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“What we love, others will love and we will show them how.” – Wordsworth

When I was 22-years-old and moving into my first post-college rental, my dad helped me find some used furniture. Some people he knew where moving into a retirement community so we looked at the items they were getting rid of and bought a kitchen table, two chairs and a Christmas cactus. I donated the table and chairs when I bought my first house a few years later but the Christmas cactus has been with me now for 30 years.

It was my first proof that I could keep something other than myself alive. Now I look at that cactus and see it as a reminder of my most important lessons.

It blooms beautifully once a year and then sheds all those flowers as it prepares for its next feat. It’s best to shed the past so you can work towards the next thing.

The cactus does not appear to be doing anything for 50 weeks but then bursts with color for 2 weeks. Most of our work happens on the inside.

Every now and then it’s drooped in the soil it is in and needs to be repotted as its roots grow deeper. We need some new perspective/work/material from time to time in order to stay vivid.

Sometimes it blooms closer to Thanksgiving rather than Christmas. As you get older, you learn to care less about expectations and more about flourishing in the way that works for you.

The growth on the side nearest the light blooms first but eventually, the darker side blooms too. If you water all of yourself, both your bright side and the shadow side will bear fruit.

 Although it’s a cactus, it has no prickly parts. It’s possible to live a long and beautiful life without thorns to protect you.

This weekend I came across my son picking up the dropped flowers with some tweezers and putting them on the stand. It made me think of my most important work. Trying to create a calm, loving space in which others treat things with kindness.

12 thoughts on “Growing and Blooming”

    1. Ha – I hadn’t even noticed he was barefoot – thanks for drawing my attention to that, Fred. Little toes are so cute! And thank you for your comments. Hope you are having a great week!

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  3. Your Christmas cactus is a healthy and beautiful 30-year old! Well done! I love the lessons it has taught you. Plants have so much to teach us about going with the flow and in adapting to adverse conditions.

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    1. Funny, Rosaliene, I hadn’t thought to call it a 30-year-old so I love the way you’ve said that! You are so right – they adapt, go with the flow, listen and thrive. Plants do have so much to teach us!

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  4. Lovely post, Wynne. I love the parallels you drew between your cactus and your life lessons. And how wonderful to end off with that anecdote and image of your son tending to it! 💕 It speaks volumes of the environment you’ve created for your children.

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    1. Thanks, Ab! I love your feedback – you have a gift! So far so good on treating the cactus with kindness although it’s a little bit of luck because it’s up high enough not to get hit by an errant ball. 🙂

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