“Good people bring out the good in people.” – unknown
A few years ago I took my kids to a gathering where they met a lot of grown-ups. They did a few minutes of chit chat with them all and then we went off to play.
After a few minutes, my son, Mr. D, who was three years old said to me, “Where’s the New Guy?”
It took some back and forth but I figured out he was talking about one of the many grown-ups he’d met, Steve Rubenstein. As a long-time reporter for the San Francisco Chronicle and a substitute kindergarten teacher, Steve had captured Mr. D’s interest. No surprise, Steve is full of great stories and delight for all ages.
Steve heartily embraced the new moniker. My daughter, Miss O, who was seven at the time, memorialized it by making a New Guy friendship bracelet for him.
I recently had the privilege of podcasting with Steve Rubenstein and I’m sure you’ll agree – Steve has an incredible knack for sharing stories.
In this episode of the How To Share podcast, we talk about the art of storytelling that resonates with all ages. Steve shares insights from his 50-year journalism career, including his unique experiences interviewing notable figures and the therapeutic journey of writing. Learn why 13 miles per hour is the perfect speed to encounter life and how to leave a lasting impact through the stories we tell.
Takeaways:
The Art of Storytelling: Steve emphasizes the importance of knowing what to leave out in storytelling, highlighting that most of writing is about omission rather than inclusion.
Interviewing Insights: Steve shares his approach to interviewing, focusing on asking questions that resonate with both the interviewer and the audience, and getting subjects off their prepared remarks.
Therapeutic Writing: Writing can be therapeutic, as Steve experienced when he wrote about personal moments, like dropping his son off at college, which helped him process emotions.
Life at 13 MPH: Steve’s cross-country bike trip taught him that 13 miles per hour is the perfect speed to encounter life, allowing for meaningful interactions and observations.
Human Connection: Despite the contentious times, Steve’s journey across America revealed that the country is full of wonderful people, emphasizing the power of human connection beyond politics.
This is a great episode filled with how to share stories. Steve’s storytelling will leave you charmed and ready to tell your own. I know you’ll love it.
Here’s a short clip to give you a taste of the great conversation with the witty and wise Steve Rubenstein:
Here are some ways you can listen and watch to the full episode:
- The podcast player embedded below
- Click this link to watch in a browser: How to Share Reporting with Steve Rubenstein
- Subscribe to How To Share on Spotify, Amazon Music, or Apple Podcasts
- Subscribing to the YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@howtosharepodcast
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Links for this post:
As student gains bearings, father loses his by Steve Rubenstein (ping pong story mentioned in the podcast)
Steve Rubenstein, San Francisco Chronicle
(featured photo is Miss O with Steve and the New Guy bracelet)
The new guy sounds like someone to known. Lucky you and the kids, Wynne. You avoided the discard pile!
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Lucky us, indeed! Thanks, Dr. Stein!
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13 mph sounds like a wonderful title for a book or memoir. Love the idea that this is right pace to experience life and the insight that biking is a great leveler and allows us to meet people and not seeing a specific political side.
Had quite the chuckle at the jibe at your fearless leader and comparing him to kindergarten kids. Let’s not insult our kindergarteners now! 😝
Good journalism is as much about the editing as it is about capturing the resonant details. Loved this conversation!
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Oh, 13 mph as a title — that’s brilliant, Ab! The way you summed it up as a leveler – that’s a great observation.
I’m still laughing about that comparison as well. One thing is clear – our fearless leader hasn’t changed much in 27 years. 🙂
Thanks for tuning in, my friend!
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Wow his comment about how to connect with readers… It’s interesting that he really only responded once so as not to skew his perception. That not something I’ve ever thought about. As for your kiddo… I’m not surprised he has as many stories as you do 😅
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LaShelle! So good to see you! Ah, your comment is spot on. Thanks for tuning in, my friend! Hope you are well.
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ALWAYS! Glad to be able to be back to be supportive 😅
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So good! I like the company you’re keeping in your “How to Share” platform, Wynne! I look forward to listening later…so nice to meet the new guy! 🥰
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Ah, thank you for that compliment, my dear friend! And thanks for tuning in – I appreciate your feedback so much!
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🥰❤️🥰
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The New Guy seems like an interesting Guy, can’t wait to listen to the rest of the interview!
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You said it perfectly, Dana! New Guy is an Interesting Guy — kids always know this sort of thing, don’t they?
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Oh yes, they can ‘tune in’ quickly!
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They really can!
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Very interesting.
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Thanks, Barb!
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I love how his moniker came about organically and that the bracelet was made. can’t wait to listen to the whole chat !
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Kids always sense the interesting people, don’t they, Beth?! Thanks for tuning in!
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they know this innately
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The “New Guy” sounds like someone worth meeting win.
Thanks for the intro 🤗
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And how cute is the photograph
Thanks again Wynne!
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Thank you so much, Maggie! It seems like we just met New Guy so I’m surprised it’s been three years! Thanks for the comment!
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Truly my pleasure Wynne.
Have a lovely day.
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Wow, his view of readers! I never thought to look at things that way, but he’s quite right. I need to remember his pointers for when I go in for rewriting my second draft.
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I know – interesting, isn’t it? Something we can all glean something from! Thanks, Tamara!
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Exactly!
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I totally agree with the New Guy on this:”most of writing is about omission rather than inclusion.” I can’t wait to listen.
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I think that probably resonates from your PR career too, doesn’t it? Thanks for tuning in, Elizabeth!
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👍🏼
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A great podcast with the “new guy” you two offer some great advice and inspiration!
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Thank you, Mary! Appreciate you tuning in!
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This seems like a great topic and podcast. I’m intrigued about his conclusion to travel at 13 mph.
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Thanks, Brad! Steve met my friend Eric when they were biking across the country from Seattle to Washington DC so the 13mph has a strong resonance for sure!
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I think a shorter bike trip would be fun.
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Indeed!
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A journalist and a former kindergarten teacher. Now that’s an interesting person worthy of the New Guy moniker.
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Oops, former is journalist, not kindergarten teacher!
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Either way it’s interesting, right? Thanks, Rebecca!
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This sounds interesting – the importance of ommission – knowing what to leave out. This will also help with blogging of course. Just added this to my listening short list!
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I totally agree, Jen! And maybe even more important for blogging since we don’t have an editor to please or column inch limitations! Thanks for tuning in!
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Your full of great stories, too! Thank you for sharing, Wynne.
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Ah, thanks, Michele! I appreciate your comment!
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13 mph may be the perfect speed to encounter life, but I’d rather be going a little faster if I encounter wildlife. Especially if said wildlife has razor-sharp claws and teeth. The bigger those are, the faster I want to be going.
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That is an excellent point, Mark!
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I enjoyed this clip, Wynne, and I love the 13 mph takeaway, along with the “human connections beyond politics.” It’s so cute that Miss O made him a bracelet and he wore it. I’ll listen to the full podcast later tonight. Thanks for sharing! ❤️
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I’m glad you liked it. I hope you enjoy the podcast. I would think it likely that you read some of his bylines in the paper over the years given that you both have SF roots!
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How beautiful!
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This was such a lovely read, Wynne. What a title to earn from a three-year-old. Steve sounds like one of those rare people who carry stories like lanterns, lighting the way for others.
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Steve sounds wonderful! Can’t wait to listen! Loved the way you introduced us to Steve with your story…
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